Early Marriage

I do not surprise anymore when one of my friends asked me about marriage because it was the old question that I ever had after finishing my study in Syiah Kuala University in 2012. What do you think if someone asked the same question for senior high school students? Must we get marriage after finishing our Senior High School?

Numerous folks believe getting early marriage should be happened to avoid wickedness and any sexual act outside marriage. Thus, they decide to have early marriage and end of their relationship as boyfriend and girlfriend to be engaged or married. I will support your spontaneous if you have the same reason which I mention above concerning avoiding a crime.

However, as a woman, I think that you should be an independent girl who could educate your children by yourself. You could prepare yourself by continuing your college and would gain more knowledge and experience. You should not have skepticism to be a success child for your parent, a wife for your husband, and a mother for your children. Then, you could obtain a good job easier after finishing your bachelor degree and could be viable in managing household to help your husband. Next, you could be an independent wife when the husband left you because of an accident that you do not suppose to be such as died or divorced, someday. Therefore, I encourage you to prepare yourself finely regarding having a good job for your collateral life in the future.

Remember! Nobody could force you to get marriage soon because it is your life, and you might color your life by your own ways. If you want to continue your study, you should focus on it. Keep fighting for studying and do not think to hard about your mate because Allah has already planned a good thing for your future. InsyaAllah J